In this heartfelt sohbet, Ayberk Efendi invites us to contemplate a fundamental principle that underlies every moment of our lives: the divine law of “hak” (deservedness). He repeatedly affirms that nothing in existence is given without merit—every blessing and every trial is precisely what each soul has earned through its deeds, intentions, and inner state.
Ayberk Efendi explains that complaints such as “I have not received what I deserve,” or the opposite claim “I am being punished for something I did not do,” arise from a limited perception of reality. When we look closely, we discover that even the feeling of injustice is itself part of the balance Allah has ordained. A person may feel deprived because they fail to recognize the hidden ways in which their true “hak” is already at work—whether it manifests as a subtle lesson, a test of patience, or a concealed blessing.
The sohbet emphasizes three practical insights:
- All experiences are justified. Whether we perceive an event as pleasant or painful, it aligns with the soul’s record. There is no such thing as “unearned” suffering; even hardship carries purpose and reward for the seeker who turns to Allah.
- Our complaints mask humility. When we claim that something is unfair, we are actually denying the divine wisdom behind it. Acceptance does not mean passive resignation but a deep trust that every circumstance contributes to our spiritual growth.
- Prayer reshapes destiny. By asking Allah for beautiful beginnings, lives, and endings, we align ourselves with what is most fitting for us. The sincere supplication “Ya Rabbi bize güzel şeyler hak etmesin” (Lord, grant us only good things) becomes a pathway to receive what truly belongs to us.
Ayberk Efendi’s words invite us to shift from a mindset of entitlement toward one of grateful surrender. Recognizing that “everyone receives what they deserve” frees the heart from bitterness and opens it to the quiet assurance that Allah’s justice is ever‑present, even when hidden from our limited view.
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