In a heartfelt gathering held at our Ludwigshafen center, Ayberk Efendi opened the evening by thanking the people whose dedication made the event possible: Bayram Türkoğlu, Şevki Bilgin and Mehmet Hocam for their inspiring words. The atmosphere was charged with gratitude as participants exchanged warm greetings and prepared to hear a vision that has guided our community for more than a decade.
A Dergah Shaped for Europe
Ayberk Efendi recalled the moment in 2006 when Sheikh Efendi sent him a manayma: “My son, you will go to Ludwigshafen, the heart of Europe. There you will open a dergah—not a traditional one, but a place that feels like a wedding hall or a palace.” He described the centre as a living space where a Mehter band, a Sufi music ensemble and diverse activities give young people halal alternatives to the harmful temptations they encounter on the streets.
The central message was clear: young hearts need welcoming doors, not merely walls. Above the entrance hangs a sign that reads “Ne olursan ol, gel” (“Come as you are”). The sign does not promise an easy exit; rather, it challenges each visitor to consider how they will leave the space transformed.
Tolerance with Boundaries
The evening turned to the theme of hoşgörü—tolerance—as the true foundation of Islam. Ayberk Efendi emphasized that while tolerance is a divine quality, it does have limits. When an individual crosses those boundaries, the community must set firm points and guide them back onto the path of love and unity.
He warned against the tendency of some teachers to frighten rather than enlighten, noting how this can push youth toward cafés, discos or idle gossip after they leave the mosque. By offering purposeful activities inside the centre, the Society seeks to keep them engaged in Allah’s love and human compassion.
Addressing Gossip and Slander
A recurring question from the audience concerned whether süzan (gossip), dedikodu (idle talk) and iftira (slander) are forbidden. Ayberk Efendi affirmed that all scholars classify these acts as haram, yet he observed that many people fail to practice what they preach. He praised the ongoing contribution of İlahiyatçı psychologist Mehmet Küçük, who has been with the community for two years, helping members navigate such challenges with wisdom and empathy.
A Growing Community
Over ten years, more than seventy non‑Muslim friends have embraced Islam through our inclusive approach. Their journeys illustrate how a centre built on unity, respect and creative expression can become a bridge between cultures, echoing the Ottoman tradition of hospitality while speaking fluently to today’s European context.
If you feel drawn to join this vibrant community where strength truly arises together, consider becoming a member of the Royal Ottoman Society. Your participation helps us continue offering safe spaces for youth, enriching activities and spiritual guidance.
We look forward to welcoming you through our open door—Ne olursan ol, gel.
