In this heartfelt sohbet, Ayberk Efendi invites seekers to turn their attention toward a simple yet profound reminder: Kalbe girmeye bak—“look into the heart.” He points out that each of us carries an “understanding problem,” a tendency to misinterpret one another’s words and intentions. This shared difficulty often becomes the source of friction in friendships and communal life. By recognizing that misunderstanding is a universal human condition, we create space for genuine empathy and humility before the sheikh.
When we approach the sheikh with this awareness, his heart is no longer a distant throne but an open place that welcomes sincere intention. Ayberk Efendi gently urges us to set aside ego, listen deeply, and offer our presence without the desire to impress. In doing so, the encounter transforms into a meeting of hearts where love and guidance flow freely.
For those who wish to explore these teachings further, our digital library offers a collection of Sufi texts and commentaries that expand on the practice of entering the teacher’s heart: https://royalottomans.com/kutuphane. May this reflection inspire a deeper connection with the sheikh’s love and the timeless wisdom of our Ottoman‑Sufi heritage.




















